One of the first questions many women ask after an unexpected pregnancy is whether they have to tell their partner if they’re considering abortion. Legally, the answer is no because abortion is solely the woman’s decision.
The more nuanced question is whether involving him is right in your unique situation. Many women want to understand their options before involving anyone else in the conversation.
At Safe Harbor Women’s Medical Clinic, you can receive free pregnancy services and a confidential consultation, so you have the information you need before talking with your partner.
Learn About Your Pregnancy First
Many women want to understand their pregnancy before talking with anyone else.
A limited ultrasound can confirm your pregnancy’s gestational age, where the pregnancy is located, and whether the pregnancy is progressing. If the ultrasound finds that the pregnancy is located outside of the uterus, this is an ectopic pregnancy, which requires immediate medical attention and is not eligible for an elective abortion.
The age also matters because the abortion pill is only FDA-approved through 10 weeks, so it can affect the options available to you.
Why You Should Consider Telling Your Partner
Although the law generally does not require a woman to tell her partner before having an abortion, many women choose to involve him because the pregnancy affects both of them.
You may not agree on what to do. Still, an honest conversation allows both of you to ask questions, share concerns, and consider the pregnancy before making a permanent decision.
Get the Facts With a Free Ultrasound
Whether you decide to involve your partner right away or wait until you’ve had time to process the news, a free limited ultrasound at our clinic can confirm critical details that affect your options. While the prospect of having this conversation may be nerve-wracking, the more prepared you are, the better.
If you’d like more information before talking with your partner, we’re here to help. You are brave. You’ve got this. Contact us today.